While I hate to decide on what to give someone for a particular gift giving occasion, I do actually enjoy giving nice presents to those who mean a lot to me.  It used to take me forever to choose a gift.  Now, though, I just turn to the Internet.  I don’t mean that I just go online to buy a gift, although that is where I do most of my buying.  No, I mean that I go to the web to get gift ideas.

First, a little confession:  I almost always give gift that I would actually like to receive.  No, I don’t actually have them monogramed with my initials.  I don’t carry it quite that far.

Okay, here’s an example.  I cherish food.  It’s not that I actually eat very much, it’s just that I love truly good food.  Therefore, by extension, I love to get food gift ideas.  Not just ordinary food, of course.  I never give someone a loaf of bread for a holiday, although maybe a truly great French bread wouldn’t be a bad idea, now that I think about it.  But I like to give food that is delicious and also demonstrate’s that I have considered my loved one’s tastes.  Imported (or even fine domestic) cheese, for example, is one of my favorite categories.

I’m a man, so no matter what my age (don’t ask!), I still love toys.  All men are actually just little boys who grew taller…and maybe wider.  However, given my age, my taste in toys has evolved from the toy truck to electronic gadgets.  I am constantly looking for new playthings for myself, as well as electronic gift ideas for other men.

Now, this may surprise you, but I also like jewelry gifts, so I’m always on the lookout for unique jewelry gifts.  Personally, I love watches, but my favorites are the kind that most women probably wouldn’t wear.  Instead I look to items like bracelets.  I especially like charm bracelets, since one bracelet can take care of gift ideas for several years as I add nice charms for various occasions.  I know that’s probably cheating, but, as I said:  I’m a man!

I guess one of the reasons that I like to search online for reviews and recommendations for things that I would enjoy receiving or that I admire from afar is that I can understand what the articles are about.  For example, I would never try to buy someone a dress, because I have no understanding of what the terminology means.  I know the difference between cotton and polyester, but that is about as far as my knowledge will take me.  On the other hand, show me a diamond and I can appreciate its luster; tell me what a game system does and I’ll know whether it is enjoyable and state-of the art.  Best of all, tell me about a rare Wisconsin cheese, and I will completely understand the description.  I stick to what I know.

Many of us are faced with a time in which some of our close friends and family are enduring tough economic times. We want to help, but we also don’t want to embarass them by extending unwanted charity. Especially in those types of cases, we want to be sure that the presents we select for them for special occasions are put to good use, needed and enjoyed. I have a few suggestions:

A fruit basket is healthy, beautiful, yummy and always enjoyed. If you live near your gift recipient, you can find a lovely basket or other attractive container and fill it with fruit that is in season in your region of the country, obtained at a farmers market, and then fill it out with a few exotic fruits picked up at your neighborhood specialty store. If your loved one is farther away, you can arrange for any of a large range of beautiful fruit gift baskets to be delivered directly to the person’s home. It will help them to reduce their grocery bill that month.

A unique meal is another way to remember a special occasion. One alternative might be to take the friend to a special restaurant. If price is no object to you, be sure to suggest some of the pricier entrees on the menu, so that your guests know that they should not worry about ordering whatever they prefer. For example, you could say something like, “The crab legs are perfect here, but, if you don’t like seafood, try the filet mignon.” If they live too far away for that, you can actually find delicious, gourmet, chef-prepared meals online that arrive frozen and can be heated in almost no time. (I actually keep my freezer stocked with these.) Or you might send a gift certificate to a special place in their town.

You might also consider a tasty dessert. No person should have too many desserts, but on a birthday, anniversary or holiday, everyone deserves an opportunity to indulge a sweet tooth. Bake cookies, if that is a skill of yours, and hand deliver or have them delivered. For something a little more special consider giving them a freshly baked pie or turtle cheesecake. Whether you make it yourself or have others do the work for you doesn’t matter. It will be appreciated and definitely enjoyed either way.

You may observe that all my recommendationinvolve food. Someone who is going through a difficult time may not want to accept charity, but nobody can reject a genuinely special gift. If it reduces the grocery bill by a bit, that’s just a bonus. To make it even most festive, invite yourself to share in the delights with them!

Fighting my way through a crowded store with my arms full of packages is not my cup of tea. My mother loves to shop, but I did not inherit that part of her genetic composition. The part that I despise the most, however, is trying to figure out what gifts everyone would actually appreciate. I used to have this inescapable fear that all of my shopping efforts usually resulted in a rushed trip back to the store or, worse, out to the garbage can. I could never develop any sort of confidence about what to get my Grandma or dear Uncle Arthur. Now, I can enjoy the cute shops and the department stores, especially during the holidays, because I walk through empty handed, unhurried, with all of my shopping finished. I do all my shopping on the Internet, now. Well almost all of it.

While online shopping keeps me from being pushed around in a busy department store or standing in line at a little boutique, it doesn’t keep me from the most dreaded part of any gift giving event; choosing the right gift for a birthday, a holiday, a sick friend or whomever. Then about five years ago, I discovered food.

That wasn’t very honestly phrased, because I discovered food when I was still an infant. But I didn’t discover food as a gift idea until recently. You see, at that time I received a gift basket full of hardly edible sausages, processed cheese spreads (mostly chemicals I think) and crackers that were about as crunchy as a rock. However, the poor quality of what passed as food in that gift turned out to be my inspiration. “What,” I thought, “If I had received genuinely good food?” How different that would have been, and how much I would have enjoyed it.

Since then, I have been busy conducting research (that’s just my word for “sampling”). I have found online vendors who offer genuine quality for about the same price that you can get that synthetic stuff at the mall. (You know the one I mean, but I’m not about to open myself to a libel or slander charge by naming the brand.) Just like the mall kiosks, the online shops handle all the shipping, gift cards, everything. I know that my gifts will be exceptionally pleasant surprises for all of my gift recipients.

These Internet shops offer everything from gourmet fruit baskets to live lobster dinners (well, they won’t be alive when they are actually eaten), from wine gift baskets to cookie bouquets. The array of gift foods is really quite amazing.

For those on my gift list who live nearby, I usually assemble my own gift baskets. Even in those cases, the Internet comes to my rescue with helpful suggestions about how to make my self-assembled gift foods more interesting. The available articles also have great gift ideas for special people who often happen to be especially difficult when it comes to choosing a gift.

So join me in thanking the Internet (maybe Al Gore?) for teaching me how to walk through an aisle of a store, empty handed, with a huge smile. I can do that, now, just to soak up the atmosphere of the season. I’m a tourist when I’m there instead of a harried shopper.

While I hate to decide on what to give someone for a particular gift giving occasion, I do actually enjoy giving nice presents to those who mean a lot to me.  It used to take me forever to choose a gift.  Now, though, I just turn to the Internet.  I don’t mean that I just go online to buy a gift, although that is where I do most of my buying.  No, I mean that I go to the web to get gift ideas.

My gifts tend to be things that I would like to receive.  Believe me, I can find lots of things that I would love by going to just a few sites filled with reviews and suggestions.

Okay, here’s an example.  I cherish food.  It’s not that I actually eat very much, it’s just that I love truly good food.  Therefore, by extension, I love to get gourmet food gift ideas.  Not just ordinary food, of course.  I never give someone a loaf of bread for a holiday, although maybe a truly great French bread wouldn’t be a bad idea, now that I think about it.  But I like to give food that is delicious and also demonstrate’s that I have considered my loved one’s tastes.  Imported (or even fine domestic) cheese, for example, is one of my favorite categories.

I’m a man, so no matter what my age (don’t ask!), I still love toys.  All men are actually just little boys who grew taller…and maybe wider.  However, given my age, my taste in toys has evolved from the toy truck to electronic gadgets.  I am constantly looking for new playthings for myself, as well as electronic gift ideas for other men.

Even as a man, I love jewelry, although I don’t really wear any except for watches.  But a lot of men, and almost all women, wear a lot of jewelry, and I have a sincere visual appreciation for it.  From bracelets to ear rings, from necklaces to unique key chains, I am alway looking out for unique jewelry gift ideas.

I guess the one kind of gift I don’t like is cash.  I mean, what’s the point?  If you’re going to give me twenty dollars, then I’ll give you thirty next year.  Of course, that means that you’ll have to at least match me the following year.  Let’s invest a little thought and keep the cash in our own wallets or use it to by a gift that shows that we’ve done our homework.